Why is talking to girls so hard for us?

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Even when a girl looks friendly, I'll just find a way to excuse myself from the conversation.  it's as if my body knows it shouldn't be spreading my genetics around.
 
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MichaelSzny said:
I have female friends, it's not hard to talk to girls.

Same. I don't find it hard to talk to girls and my female friends, but I find it f*cking impossible to flirt with them.
 

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MichaelSzny said:
I have female friends, it's not hard to talk to girls.

It's one thing to be friendly and then another thing to talk to them sexually.

I was wondering if @IcedEarth could help me out with this.


scar_face40 said:
MichaelSzny said:
I have female friends, it's not hard to talk to girls.

Same. I don't find it hard to talk to girls and my female friends, but I find it f*cking impossible to flirt with them.

Yeah!  How do you flirt?
 
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rigidity said:
MichaelSzny said:
I have female friends, it's not hard to talk to girls.

It's one thing to be friendly and then another thing to talk to them sexually.

I was wondering if @IcedEarth could help me out with this.


scar_face40 said:
Same. I don't find it hard to talk to girls and my female friends, but I find it f*cking impossible to flirt with them.

Yeah!  How do you flirt?



Step 1: Be attractive
Step 2: Don't be unattractive
Step 3: 'Just be yourself'
 

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scar_face40 said:
rigidity said:
It's one thing to be friendly and then another thing to talk to them sexually.

I was wondering if @IcedEarth could help me out with this.



Yeah!  How do you flirt?



Step 1: Be attractive
Step 2: Don't be an aspie
Step 3: Be attractive



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Girls are actually easier to "talk" to than guys are. They are a lot more talkative and have higher verbal intelligence in general then men do. Girls are able to blather on about the most vapid shit for days. Flirting with them is a completely different story though.
 
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It's hard because you, like most of us, are invisible to shitcunts.

Today for example, I was ignored by what looked to be a Roma female beggar in her 20s (attractive), near Victoria Station, despite the fact that I was suited and booted having returned from a work trip. She approached everyone else in the vicinity except me.

Dat feel when you are invisible even to immigrant poverty panhandlers.
 

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Norwood Cemetery said:
It's hard because you, like most of us, are invisible to shitcunts.

Today for example, I was ignored by what looked to be a Roma female beggar in her 20s (attractive), near Victoria Station, despite the fact that I was suited and booted having returned from a work trip. She approached everyone else in the vicinity except me.

Dat feel when you are invisible even to immigrant poverty panhandlers.

That is true. How can you talk to someone who doesn't even acknowledge your presence?
 
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iNeedHair said:
Norwood Cemetery said:
It's hard because you, like most of us, are invisible to shitcunts.

Today for example, I was ignored by what looked to be a Roma female beggar in her 20s (attractive), near Victoria Station, despite the fact that I was suited and booted having returned from a work trip. She approached everyone else in the vicinity except me.

Dat feel when you are invisible even to immigrant poverty panhandlers.

That is true. How can you talk to someone who doesn't even acknowledge your presence?

I sometimes wonder if I am actually dead, and just a roaming spirit that co-exists with people but in a different dimension.

Pizza tomorrow methinks, I need to drown my sorrows in roquita peppers and black olives.
 

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MichaelSzny said:
I have female friends, it's not hard to talk to girls.


Ditto. When I was a teenager I was bad at it. I put a lot of practice in and in the past few years most of my good friends have been female. It's not really beta orbiting since I'm not trying to fuck them. I just have enjoyed female friendship. Mostly I think I pursued so many friendhsjps with girls to to compensate for my lack of dating experience.
 
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I am just so developmentally stunted, that talking to a girl is like climbing mount Everest for me. Sucks, but that is just how it is.
 

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igesio said:
Because they make it hard for us.

Note that I said I have problems even talking to friendly girls.  I have no issues talking to guys who don't get laid or are ugly, but I can't even talk to guys who get laid.  The life experience gap is far too great.
 
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