Norwood Cemetery
Coper
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I'd like us to just stop for a minute and work back to first principles.
A typical, almost standard insult to certain men in Western society, and especially incels, is pure derision and mockery regarding their lack of sexual or relationship experience.
But if we think hard about it, why is that something to be mocked?
Men, by and large, are the ones who take on the risk of rejection by approaching, or asking a woman out. You will note that women, across most forms of dating or sexual matters, are far less frequently in the position of being rejected. Immediately therefore men have more pressure to handle rejection in trying to form a relationship. What if the man struggles with constant rejection? Does that make him a viable source of ridicule?
Many incels, truth be told, have a low tolerance for rejection and lack confidence. When women lack confidence or dislike rejection, they are still able to enter relationships and have sexual encounters by virtue of men having to do all the work in the initial stages.
Good-looking men of course will handle far less rejection; and the hypergamous nature of many/most women will mean average or worse men are subject to additional rejection.
I'm really baffled why, in today's society, a man should be mocked for not being able to experience intimacy - especially if he is trying. Do angry women get similarly mocked? I think not.
(It pained me not to use the word 'shitcunt' in this post, btw)
A typical, almost standard insult to certain men in Western society, and especially incels, is pure derision and mockery regarding their lack of sexual or relationship experience.
But if we think hard about it, why is that something to be mocked?
Men, by and large, are the ones who take on the risk of rejection by approaching, or asking a woman out. You will note that women, across most forms of dating or sexual matters, are far less frequently in the position of being rejected. Immediately therefore men have more pressure to handle rejection in trying to form a relationship. What if the man struggles with constant rejection? Does that make him a viable source of ridicule?
Many incels, truth be told, have a low tolerance for rejection and lack confidence. When women lack confidence or dislike rejection, they are still able to enter relationships and have sexual encounters by virtue of men having to do all the work in the initial stages.
Good-looking men of course will handle far less rejection; and the hypergamous nature of many/most women will mean average or worse men are subject to additional rejection.
I'm really baffled why, in today's society, a man should be mocked for not being able to experience intimacy - especially if he is trying. Do angry women get similarly mocked? I think not.
(It pained me not to use the word 'shitcunt' in this post, btw)