Who else here has literally NO friends?

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  • I legit don't have a single contact number on my phone outside of my family...
  • I don't have (and never did have) any social media accounts.
  • I haven't been 'out' with a friend or been to someone's house since high school (6+ years ago).
  • I used to have a couple of online contacts I talked with until last year (who I knew from my school days), but I secretly hated them and drove them away.
  • I'm self-employed so I rarely meet new people, and when I do they are never under 30yo.
 
My social circle isn't small .. it is non-existent. 

I believe this is without doubt the single biggest reason for my inceldom. 
 

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used to have a lot, they didn't help me get laid, they didn't help me make money, they were backstabbing me whenever I took a step upwards etc

friends are over rated and irl inexistant once out of high school, just get acquaintances and apply to their self interest
 

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I have a small social circle, but I don't have access to attractive and single women so it's useless
 

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IcedEarth said:
used to have a lot, they didn't help me get laid, they didn't help me make money, they were backstabbing me whenever I took a step upwards etc

friends are over rated and irl inexistant once out of high school, just get acquaintances and apply to their self interest
Yeah, I could care less about the actual friendships... I just want a network or platform that will enable me to meet and fuck bitches. 

Maybe I should just join some faggy local club or something instead... although these are probably full of discarded old porkers rather than young attractive women.
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If you dont have friends or a big social circle with women these days, it is almost impossible for you to get laid EVER. Women have zero interest in creeps like that.
It's not even necessary to have a big social circle.. You can go clubbing or to bars with just one friend and pick up girls every weekend. I would be doing this if I had just a single friend. 

The problem is when you are by yourself. I've never heard of anyone who goes to clubs alone and is successful in picking up women.
 

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Ascended said:
Maybe I should just join some faggy local club or something instead... although these are probably full of discarded old porkers rather than young attractive women.
they are generally full with skinnyfat neckbears 3/4 and 1/4 subpar women who got bf, you'd meet better girls on a language course, or go full faggot with the salsa class for a month
 

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IcedEarth said:
Ascended said:
Maybe I should just join some faggy local club or something instead... although these are probably full of discarded old porkers rather than young attractive women.
they are generally full with skinnyfat neckbears 3/4 and 1/4 subpar women who got bf, you'd meet better girls on a language course, or go full faggot with the salsa class for a month
Lol salsa - any girls would just think you're a pillow biter if they see you there. Language class seems like a legit idea though.
 

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Lol salsa - any girls would just think you're a pillow biter if they see you there.
the only faggot is generally the instructor, it's full with incels, married couples and average insecure women, if you ain't fat and aren't short you could try it

problem is they got less women in general because they leave once they see they can only dance with incels
 

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IcedEarth said:
used to have a lot, they didn't help me get laid, they didn't help me make money, they were backstabbing me whenever I took a step upwards etc

friends are over rated and irl inexistant once out of high school, just get acquaintances and apply to their self interest

Nailed it except the backstabbing part. Never had that.

The only benefit of friends is they keep you grounded in realizing that most people in this world aren't attractive chads out banging sluts on tinder. Most people in this world are just making it day to day trying to be happy with what they have.

Ive pretty much cut off most my friends at this point because they were serving no other purpose.
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IcedEarth said:
used to have a lot, they didn't help me get laid, they didn't help me make money, they were backstabbing me whenever I took a step upwards etc

friends are over rated and irl inexistant once out of high school, just get acquaintances and apply to their self interest
Yeah, I could care less about the actual friendships... I just want a network or platform that will enable me to meet and fuck bitches. 

Maybe I should just join some faggy local club or something instead... although these are probably full of discarded old porkers rather than young attractive women.
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gottaplay said:
If you dont have friends or a big social circle with women these days, it is almost impossible for you to get laid EVER. Women have zero interest in creeps like that.
It's not even necessary to have a big social circle.. You can go clubbing or to bars with just one friend and pick up girls every weekend. I would be doing this if I had just a single friend. 

The problem is when you are by yourself. I've never heard of anyone who goes to clubs alone and is successful in picking up women.
If you're just looking for a wingman, there are plenty of websites to help you find one.
 

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Ascended said:
modified said:
If you're just looking for a wingman, there are plenty of websites to help you find one.
Lol really?
Yeah. Finding a wingman that way is actually better than real friends, since most real friends won't have the stomach or determination to plow through the endless rejections you'll face.

Look for a pua lair site in your city or go to that wingman website there is.
 
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gottaplay said:
Ascended said:
It's not even necessary to have a big social circle.. You can go clubbing or to bars with just one friend and pick up girls every weekend. I would be doing this if I had just a single friend. 

The problem is when you are by yourself. I've never heard of anyone who goes to clubs alone and is successful in picking up women.

No friends = No civilian sex. Simple as that, no exceptions. The whole point of looxmaxing is to appear normal enough to be accepted into social circles. Nobody would want to invite a boring and nerdy looking miserable guy like you out. Even good looking incels like Macimate were starving for sex, just because he didnt have any friends.

Macimate fucks hotties and has great social circle in real life, iirc. He's humble and not much of a bragger, maybe that's why some people don't know this. I wouldn't be surprised if he's slaying these days.
 
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look. ive always had a easy time to find friends. not the popular jocks, but also not the complete loser types. ive always had average to slightly above average looking friends. whenever i moved school or uni or city...i always found a few friends to hang out with or party.

but guess what...i got annoyed by them always calling me for party or festival or some other social shit. i often rejected to go out and was happy when they didnt ask me too often. why? because there is ABSOLUTELY NO POINT in going out of the house if you are sub7. you wont get laid for shit from it. sure you might meet some women and you talk and you think she might even like you...guess what...she will meet 10guys that are more attractive than you on the same evening. and the next day another 10. on tinder there are another 100 etc etc...

partying/socialising is a scam...you wont get laid from it if you are not innitially attractive to women.
neither did i, nor did any of my friends. and im not an aspie and they arent either. we were just not goodlooking enough and thats why nothing came ever out of meeting some chicks
 

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I have a twin...friends are pointless. They're good for social validation so you can fuck women due to not looking like a rapist.
 

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IcedEarth said:
modified said:
Look for a pua lair site in your city or go to that wingman website there is.
lmfao

pua lairs?

https://www.vice.com/en_uk/read/my-day-with-the-london-seduction-society
I met some cool enough guys I did PUA with from a lair in my city many years ago. I went out with them diligently and approached hundreds of women. It was from those experiences that I learned most of what I know today about gender relationships and where I fit in.

It was a valuable experience. Most of the guys in PUA lairs are just 4/10 normal guys who can't get laid either. But at least they want to make an effort.

Have you ever tried hitting on girls with a normie friend? They give up after one rejection. With PUA guys, they don't mind blasting through 10 sets in a night. And that's the only way you're going to get anywhere if you're ugly.
 

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I'm in college so I have quite a lot of friends but none of them is popular....it shouldn't be hard making friends...I mean I'm quite ugly with lots of flaws in my face but I've never had problems making friends.

Maybe it's because you try to befriend the most popular kids or because you give off an eerie and snob vibe....
 
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