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dasani

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i barely meet anyone knew. my friend group and the number of social contacts has only diminished. i'm still gl and fashionable enough to mingle with some cool young people, but i virtually never find these opportunities. i don't go anywhere. i don't work shitty jobs where they'd work (because they're in college and if they weren't i'd probably avoid them). i don't go to the gym. i don't have social media where i could interact with them. i can never chance into someone new.

inceldom is increasing no doubt because young men and young women are not meeting each other, and stuff like tinder and dating sites highly prioritize looks and allow women to filter out people based on shit like height. irl physical attributes are far less important, partnering is determined by social skills, irl chemistry, and looks rather than just looks. only someone who is a chad ON PAPER gets anywhere with tinder.
 

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irl women would date all sorts of men due to irl chemistry and social skills, but ask her to list her requirements when she barely goes out:
-6'2
-probably white
-makes much more money than me
-facially attractive
etc etc

women are forced to rate men and choose them based on these discrete qualities because they do not actually meet men irl
 

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I get so much more attention irl than in tinder

But in any c ase I havent met anyone in a while

I only use tinder for Validation sometimes and so since Pandemic began Ive led about 10 ppl on on Tinder but didnt really want to meet,.
 

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irl women would date all sorts of men due to irl chemistry and social skills, but ask her to list her requirements when she barely goes out:
-6'2
-probably white
-makes much more money than me
-facially attractive
etc etc

women are forced to rate men and choose them based on these discrete qualities because they do not actually meet men irl
this is true even for men tbh

the kind of girl you think you'd be willing to date/slay/whatever when you're sitting in your room has only the slightest bearing on what girls you'd end up going for if the opportunity presented itself.
 

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I get so much more attention irl than in tinder

But in any c ase I havent met anyone in a while

I only use tinder for Validation sometimes and so since Pandemic began Ive led about 10 ppl on on Tinder but didnt really want to meet,.
i pretty much only get attention irl. i get almost nothing on tinder. some men are attractive irl but fail to meet these requirements that women set up that ive listen in the first reply.

most women who'd consider you irl would ignore you on tinder.
 

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i pretty much only get attention irl. i get almost nothing on tinder. some men are attractive irl but fail to meet these requirements that women set up that ive listen in the first reply.

most women who'd consider you irl would ignore you on tinder.
Yeah they would ignore on tinder most likely. You have to be gll and very handsome on tinder. Cuties have it better IRL. Many girls like to kiss and hug Cuties
 

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this is true even for men tbh

the kind of girl you think you'd be willing to date/slay/whatever when you're sitting in your room has only the slightest bearing on what girls you'd end up going for if the opportunity presented itself.
i think it's only in slaying that the standards become considerably lower. i don't know any guy who sets up these must-haves that are mostly divorced from what they'd go for irl. unlike for women, men care far more about looks. it's women whose minds are changed by irl chemistry and social skills.
 

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bruh. how i 'posed to meet people.

I'm not allowed at work.

Bars are shut down.

Fucking, can't even jog at the gym w/o a mask on
 

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i think it's only in slaying that the standards become considerably lower. i don't know any guy who sets up these must-haves that are mostly divorced from what they'd go for irl. unlike for women, men care far more about looks. it's women whose minds are changed by irl chemistry and social skills.
or maybe that's just me. i am extremely picky and filter people out based on their earning potential as one example. i am not nt.
 

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i think it's only in slaying that the standards become considerably lower. i don't know any guy who sets up these must-haves that are mostly divorced from what they'd go for irl. unlike for women, men care far more about looks. it's women whose minds are changed by irl chemistry and social skills.
idk. it's easier for a rotter to imagine his ideal 7/10 gf with all the shit he's looking for, maybe he wants a latina or a girl with blue eyes or whatever, and think he wouldn't wanna go for a girl who was worse looking or even just had a different pheno--but then the moment a decent looking girl who's nothing like his imagined dream girl giggles at one of his jokes in class, suddenly he's head over heels for her

i've definitely seen my friends date girls who they would've said they weren't into if she were just a random stranger
 

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I'm in the same boat. It's more difficult than ever now. I haven't met anyone new in the past half year. Whereas in the half year before that I met a lot of people even if none of them stuck, which is at least something.

We should hang out in Chicago bro.
 

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I'm in the same boat. It's more difficult than ever now. I haven't met anyone new in the past half year. Whereas in the half year before that I met a lot of people even if none of them stuck, which is at least something.

We should hang out in Chicago bro.
i will meet with you there but within the span of like one or two weeks. my acne is horrible atm, and i barely want to go outside. also i am very weird and autistic irl i may embarrass you if you are a nt chad.

i am only an hour from the loop, it is not a big decision for me to go to the city.
 

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why do we have to live in this abomination of an era? I want to live in 2000 not 2020
 

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I HAVE NOBODY TO MEET IRL ANYMORE BECAUSE OF COVID AND IM FUCKING RAGING IM SO LONELY AND PORN JUST ISNT DOING IT FOR ME ANYMORE. NEITHER IS VIDEO GAMES
 
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