sensorydeprivation
Joke
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Lets say youre approaching strangers alone in a public setting.
Confidence is derived from belief in a positive outcome of the social situation based on prior experiences of similar situations
or prior confirmed knowledge that one stands to have a good chance of a positive outcome.
Bravery is when you dont expect a positive outcome, in fact you might be pessimistic or even convinced that the odds are stacked
against your favor. Yet you plunge yourself into the situation and expose yourself to the vurnerability of a negative outcome with all that it could possibly entail.
When an incel cold approaches strangers, it doesnt mean hes confident; it means hes brave. Many times Ive heard the coping of others on here that I am somehow confident and that the confidence must be derived from somewhere since Ive been able to approach thousands of strangers. This is simply not true, it means Im brave whereas they are trying to justify their cowardness.
I remember a situation where I was sat down in the smoking area of a night club sitting on a bench near 2 guys who were both fairly good looking, one of the guys was built and did mma. There were 2 girls standing behind us and at one point I grabbed one of the girls by the hand and sat her down next to the 2 guys saying "you sit over here" and grabbed the other by the waist and sat her down next to me saying "and you sit over here". Both of the girls seemed very uninterested and kept looking down at their phones while one of the 2 guys tried to talk to the one sat next to him, the girl sat next next to me gave me a quick glance that showed utter contempt. The girls left shortly and the 2 guys told me "Wow, you deserve a medal for what you just did there". Because they KNEW I was low social value and because they KNEW that even they couldnt appeal to these stuck up girls, and they were obviously higher value than me
Confidence is derived from belief in a positive outcome of the social situation based on prior experiences of similar situations
or prior confirmed knowledge that one stands to have a good chance of a positive outcome.
Bravery is when you dont expect a positive outcome, in fact you might be pessimistic or even convinced that the odds are stacked
against your favor. Yet you plunge yourself into the situation and expose yourself to the vurnerability of a negative outcome with all that it could possibly entail.
When an incel cold approaches strangers, it doesnt mean hes confident; it means hes brave. Many times Ive heard the coping of others on here that I am somehow confident and that the confidence must be derived from somewhere since Ive been able to approach thousands of strangers. This is simply not true, it means Im brave whereas they are trying to justify their cowardness.
I remember a situation where I was sat down in the smoking area of a night club sitting on a bench near 2 guys who were both fairly good looking, one of the guys was built and did mma. There were 2 girls standing behind us and at one point I grabbed one of the girls by the hand and sat her down next to the 2 guys saying "you sit over here" and grabbed the other by the waist and sat her down next to me saying "and you sit over here". Both of the girls seemed very uninterested and kept looking down at their phones while one of the 2 guys tried to talk to the one sat next to him, the girl sat next next to me gave me a quick glance that showed utter contempt. The girls left shortly and the 2 guys told me "Wow, you deserve a medal for what you just did there". Because they KNEW I was low social value and because they KNEW that even they couldnt appeal to these stuck up girls, and they were obviously higher value than me
