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There are good looking guys on places like this site who are on this site because they can't slay. Some will say it is their personality, some will claim it is still their looks, and some will blame social development disorders such as Aspergers but the truth is that these guys had the wrong circumstances growing up.

Success in life and slaying are all about the right circumstances growing up.

Chad doesn't just slay because he is handsome, Chad also slays because he had it easy growing up. Chad had a rich dad that married a hot mom and he lived in a neighborhood loaded with rich hot girls. Chad's parents made him confident, pushed him into sports at an early age, and raised him to be an alpha.

Compare that to your average incel on here. He might not even look ugly but he had shitty parents, helicopter parents, overly protective mother/father, and as a result missed out on so much of his youth. Parents probably poor or religious nuts too, meaning that the incel got no action. If only he had a good dad or some strong male figure that taught him how to be a man rather than some shitty parents.

The thing about confidence and personality is that it develops overtime. You play a sport growing up, win a championship, and all of a sudden you're confident because you can look back on that moment. That time you fucked a hot girl after winning a state championship.

It carries over on to so many other things too, despite what you might think, Chad will go to work on Wall Street because he had good grades in college and networking skills to get him that high paying job. That's right, Chad didn't just get more pussy than you but he will also end up getting a higher paying job.

Now lets look at adulthood, Chad is married and settled down with his HBB wife because he already had those experiences. The incel is either overcompensating by going the PUA route, staying at home lonely, giving up, or he is resorting to escorts.

So much of what happens to you, especially in your youth, is well out of your control.

Go to a shitty high school in some dumb hick town loaded with ugly girls instead of a school in the city loaded with fun people and hot girls? Not your fault!

Overbearing helicopter parents that stop you from enjoying youth versus good parents that raise you to be confident and an alpha? Not your fault!

Get the picture?

Then by the time you can do something about it, society is already asking you to get married.

Life is a bitch.
 

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just be lucky theory

aspergers is still death tho either way
 

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Kinda true, at least the principle. However, what you are describing is not exclusive to chads. Even if you are not a chad, these determinants are crucial in forming what will eventually turn into a happy life, no matter how you look like (there are several potential handicaps besides looks, but that doesn't mean these are definite, non-permeable limitations).
 

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Legit

it's all about good looks and above all good parenting as kids. Im all fucked up due to parents. Missed on so much its not even funny. Parents fuck you up.

When people talk about your personality/confidence being molded, ever since you're a kid, by how random people respond to your looks, be it in school, in the sport team, whatever, they dont realise that the most influencial and the people you'll spend the most time with are youre parents. Of course the response from society matters. The thing is the response you get from your parents matters ten fold that of random strangers. So even if you're good looking, you can be fucked up by shit parenting.

If youre dad treats you like shit (like a retard who think he's competing against you and needs to prove how superior he is compared to you, and how everything is hard and only he can solve problems never you you always should call him for help, like a pussy) and your mom suffers from anxiety and is constantly afraid of everyone and everything, how are you supposed to be normal? How are you fucking supposed to see life as an adventure rather than a nightmare? Kids are vulnerable they should be protected and their parents shouldn't be amogged or show that they fear anything. 

You will get the picture that the world is composed of people better than you, and since your mom feared everything you got no safe place to build your confidence in. You're fucked. No matter how girls will vote for you as the best looking kid in class you'll, how all the boys wanted to be your friend, how older women always told you're mom that you'd be a ladies man, you will always have this fucked up mentality that people are better than you, and looks don't matter and you'll run away from girls since, in your mind, they know everything and you don't, so better not risk and go to your basement. Fuck my life seriously.
 

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Legit.  Thats only a part of the puzzle tho.

I just want to add in that your formed personality and views after maturing plays a big role too.
I don't mean 'personality attracts women' stuff but having traits such as motivation, determination, hard working, strong will power, smart learner...all matter if you will become sucessful and therefore have a happy life and healthy well-being.
The opposite is true too.  On the other hand you can have decent/good looks but if you are suseptible to fear, anxiety, lazyness, victim mentality etc then thats going to be your life until you die.
 

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debijon said:
Legit.  Thats only a part of the puzzle tho.

I just want to add in that your formed personality and views after maturing plays a big role too.
I don't mean 'personality attracts women' stuff but having traits such as motivation, determination, hard working, strong will power, smart learner...all matter if you will become sucessful and therefore have a happy life and healthy well-being.
The opposite is true too.  On the other hand you can have decent/good looks but if you are suseptible to fear, anxiety, lazyness, victim mentality etc then thats going to be your life until you die.
:crying:

i always knew it
 

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This is is ONLY the case if you are already good looking, tall, NOT autistic. Otherwise the cause is 100% one or more of those 3 factors.
 

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Nyhil said:
Legit

it's all about good looks and above all good parenting as kids. Im all fucked up due to parents. Missed on so much its not even funny. Parents fuck you up.

When people talk about your personality/confidence being molded, ever since you're a kid, by how random people respond to your looks, be it in school, in the sport team, whatever, they dont realise that the most influencial and the people you'll spend the most time with are youre parents. Of course the response from society matters. The thing is the response you get from your parents matters ten fold that of random strangers. So even if you're good looking, you can be fucked up by shit parenting.

If youre dad treats you like shit (like a retard who think he's competing against you and needs to prove how superior he is compared to you, and how everything is hard and only he can solve problems never you you always should call him for help, like a pussy) and your mom suffers from anxiety and is constantly afraid of everyone and everything, how are you supposed to be normal? How are you fucking supposed to see life as an adventure rather than a nightmare? Kids are vulnerable they should be protected and their parents shouldn't be amogged or show that they fear anything. 

You will get the picture that the world is composed of people better than you, and since your mom feared everything you got no safe place to build your confidence in. You're fucked. No matter how girls will vote for you as the best looking kid in class you'll, how all the boys wanted to be your friend, how older women always told you're mom that you'd be a ladies man, you will always have this fucked up mentality that people are better than you, and looks don't matter and you'll run away from girls since, in your mind, they know everything and you don't, so better not risk and go to your basement. Fuck my life seriously.
Not always,you can develop narcissistic personality disorder at around 3 years old if you realize your first source of love(your mom) is unstable,you detach in exchange for ever having the capacity to love anyone other than yourself.
 

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Harry Rotter said:
Nyhil said:
Legit

it's all about good looks and above all good parenting as kids. Im all fucked up due to parents. Missed on so much its not even funny. Parents fuck you up.

When people talk about your personality/confidence being molded, ever since you're a kid, by how random people respond to your looks, be it in school, in the sport team, whatever, they dont realise that the most influencial and the people you'll spend the most time with are youre parents. Of course the response from society matters. The thing is the response you get from your parents matters ten fold that of random strangers. So even if you're good looking, you can be fucked up by shit parenting.

If youre dad treats you like shit (like a retard who think he's competing against you and needs to prove how superior he is compared to you, and how everything is hard and only he can solve problems never you you always should call him for help, like a pussy) and your mom suffers from anxiety and is constantly afraid of everyone and everything, how are you supposed to be normal? How are you fucking supposed to see life as an adventure rather than a nightmare? Kids are vulnerable they should be protected and their parents shouldn't be amogged or show that they fear anything. 

You will get the picture that the world is composed of people better than you, and since your mom feared everything you got no safe place to build your confidence in. You're fucked. No matter how girls will vote for you as the best looking kid in class you'll, how all the boys wanted to be your friend, how older women always told you're mom that you'd be a ladies man, you will always have this fucked up mentality that people are better than you, and looks don't matter and you'll run away from girls since, in your mind, they know everything and you don't, so better not risk and go to your basement. Fuck my life seriously.
Not always,you can develop narcissistic personality disorder at around 3 years old if you realize your first source of love(your mom) is unstable,you detach in exchange for ever having the capacity to love anyone other than yourself.
yeah and isnt that what im saying? Fucked up parenting produce fucked up people. Finally the redpill is being completed. Looks matter so you can arouse sexual desire in women who in turn will do everything for you, but to actually enjoy life, have a sane normal social life and work make money, you need good parenting to help you see the world as an adveture and not a nightmare that you should constantly run away from.
 

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what I wonder is this though

can you actually break out of that mold to enjoy life?
 

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I was bluepilled on the true effects of low class ethnic parenting until LMSghost clued me up.
 
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Plenty of ugly people get lucky early on in life and end up living happy lives. I see confident subhumans every day at the place where I work and they are genuinely happy.
 

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Legit overload.

This resonates very well with me.

Poor parents, shitty neighbourhood, and to top it off they sent me to an all boys catholic school.

Absolutely nightmarish environment for social development, I've let them know many times how I resent them for birthing me (srs)
 

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SeriousM said:
what I wonder is this though

can you actually break out of that mold to enjoy life?
only if women literally worship you and thats why we looksmax here
 

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MENTAL_CEL said:



Legit overload.

This resonates very well with me.

Poor parents, shitty neighbourhood, and to top it off they sent me to an all boys catholic school.

Absolutely nightmarish environment for social development, I've let them know many times how I resent them for birthing me (srs)
Poverty in youth = awful

It is the rich kids who are enjoying their youth.
 

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SeriousM said:
MENTAL_CEL said:



Legit overload.

This resonates very well with me.

Poor parents, shitty neighbourhood, and to top it off they sent me to an all boys catholic school.

Absolutely nightmarish environment for social development, I've let them know many times how I resent them for birthing me (srs)
Poverty in youth = awful

It is the rich kids who are enjoying their youth.
Bro i always had the least amount of cloth and the shittiest shoes. My mother favored my younger brother and my father favored my sister so they both got more and better looking name brand clothes than me. Not only that they only ever bought me video games years later when that phase was already gone. The point of getting games is to go on the adventure with your peers. I had to save up my lunch money for 3 months to get gameboy color and one game. I didn't eat lunch for 3 months and put the 2 dollars i had for for lunch in a shoe box. So i always got a video game systems like 3-4 years after it came out.

Then my mother always had me going in school in shitty church clothes and high water pants saying no child of mine is gona look like a thug. Always saying pull up your pants, etc was her way of controlling me and to make herself look better than other parents. My mother was always a loser socially motherhood was her only identity she would try to keep us trapped in the house with her all the time, or try to show us off to people. My father was beta but at least he had sense not to cling on to us.This effects how you view the world alot of parents will try to trap their children to make them dependent on them. Alot of these parents were losers when younger and need the children to feel in the empty void. So they try to prevent you from socializing going to parties having some freedom in hopes you won't grow up as fast and won't need them.