There are good looking guys on places like this site who are on this site because they can't slay. Some will say it is their personality, some will claim it is still their looks, and some will blame social development disorders such as Aspergers but the truth is that these guys had the wrong circumstances growing up.
Success in life and slaying are all about the right circumstances growing up.
Chad doesn't just slay because he is handsome, Chad also slays because he had it easy growing up. Chad had a rich dad that married a hot mom and he lived in a neighborhood loaded with rich hot girls. Chad's parents made him confident, pushed him into sports at an early age, and raised him to be an alpha.
Compare that to your average incel on here. He might not even look ugly but he had shitty parents, helicopter parents, overly protective mother/father, and as a result missed out on so much of his youth. Parents probably poor or religious nuts too, meaning that the incel got no action. If only he had a good dad or some strong male figure that taught him how to be a man rather than some shitty parents.
The thing about confidence and personality is that it develops overtime. You play a sport growing up, win a championship, and all of a sudden you're confident because you can look back on that moment. That time you fucked a hot girl after winning a state championship.
It carries over on to so many other things too, despite what you might think, Chad will go to work on Wall Street because he had good grades in college and networking skills to get him that high paying job. That's right, Chad didn't just get more pussy than you but he will also end up getting a higher paying job.
Now lets look at adulthood, Chad is married and settled down with his HBB wife because he already had those experiences. The incel is either overcompensating by going the PUA route, staying at home lonely, giving up, or he is resorting to escorts.
So much of what happens to you, especially in your youth, is well out of your control.
Go to a shitty high school in some dumb hick town loaded with ugly girls instead of a school in the city loaded with fun people and hot girls? Not your fault!
Overbearing helicopter parents that stop you from enjoying youth versus good parents that raise you to be confident and an alpha? Not your fault!
Get the picture?
Then by the time you can do something about it, society is already asking you to get married.
Life is a bitch.
Success in life and slaying are all about the right circumstances growing up.
Chad doesn't just slay because he is handsome, Chad also slays because he had it easy growing up. Chad had a rich dad that married a hot mom and he lived in a neighborhood loaded with rich hot girls. Chad's parents made him confident, pushed him into sports at an early age, and raised him to be an alpha.
Compare that to your average incel on here. He might not even look ugly but he had shitty parents, helicopter parents, overly protective mother/father, and as a result missed out on so much of his youth. Parents probably poor or religious nuts too, meaning that the incel got no action. If only he had a good dad or some strong male figure that taught him how to be a man rather than some shitty parents.
The thing about confidence and personality is that it develops overtime. You play a sport growing up, win a championship, and all of a sudden you're confident because you can look back on that moment. That time you fucked a hot girl after winning a state championship.
It carries over on to so many other things too, despite what you might think, Chad will go to work on Wall Street because he had good grades in college and networking skills to get him that high paying job. That's right, Chad didn't just get more pussy than you but he will also end up getting a higher paying job.
Now lets look at adulthood, Chad is married and settled down with his HBB wife because he already had those experiences. The incel is either overcompensating by going the PUA route, staying at home lonely, giving up, or he is resorting to escorts.
So much of what happens to you, especially in your youth, is well out of your control.
Go to a shitty high school in some dumb hick town loaded with ugly girls instead of a school in the city loaded with fun people and hot girls? Not your fault!
Overbearing helicopter parents that stop you from enjoying youth versus good parents that raise you to be confident and an alpha? Not your fault!
Get the picture?
Then by the time you can do something about it, society is already asking you to get married.
Life is a bitch.
