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Socializing is not the answer

GottThaGod

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People are just boring and have nothing to offer. I interact with people mainly because I have to. Overall, normal people have nothing interesting to offer. I see them like robots. They are extremely superficial.

There is no point in being social.
 

qazz

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all my friends are weirdos but im biggest sperg probably. better than nothing man like having to be with normalfags
 
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lmao imagine fucking a girl, loving her, she loving you, her skin against yours, her bodly warmth.


humans are physical, social animals and require contact in order to be happy.


keep coping.
 

TommyShotgun

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I tried being social with a girl but all I want to do is touch and her she is just showing me how she types notes using a programming language and shit.

Like it's cool, and I am impressed, but I rather touch you more.

IDK I said we would study together Monday and she agreed even tho all I have been doing is take from her (her notes, her chips).

IDK why she would say yes to it.

She probably hates me but thinks I am a crazy incel serial killer who will murder her if she says no.
 

MVP

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yes its true

there is nothing significant i could learn from socializing, most people are just trying not to say anything embarassing and are wasting my time
 

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Wellthatsucks said:
i wish all humans would stop pretending and took off their masks

there is a film about what would happen

 

Wellthatsucks

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QFT said:
Wellthatsucks said:
i wish all humans would stop pretending and took off their masks

there is a film about what would happen






oh god can you imagine the adrenaline of something like that happening? an apocalypse would solve all my problems
 

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People are just boring and have nothing to offer. I interact with people mainly because I have to. Overall, normal people have nothing interesting to offer. I see them like robots. They are extremely superficial.

Hurr durr peoplez boring, dumb n shit, me special and profound.

Did it occur to you it's you who fits your description perfectly?

The point of socializing is relaxing, emotional bonding and exchanging experiences. Not over-discussing boring, obscure topics or debunking fallacies of youtube politicians.

Just lol.
 

BOJANGLES

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yep its all or nothing past a certain age. You need good friends who will open up to you or its over. Small talk is suifuel. 

you'd think that people get more mature and open past a certain age but in my experience its the opposite

The only other option is friends through hobbies. Then you can just sperg out about the hobby all day
 

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Socialising with people you're not friends with isn't fun.
But it can help your social status, which is obviously beneficial.

But I do hate group social situations with people I'm not friendly with.
I just end up staring into the distance and couldn't care less about trying to communicate.

One to one social interactions are better, as I find them easier.
But they often leave me feeling drained and slightly stressed.

Socialising with close friends should be fun.
You joke, laugh and discuss common interests.
 

GottThaGod

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RL_rehospitalized said:
People are just boring and have nothing to offer. I interact with people mainly because I have to. Overall, normal people have nothing interesting to offer. I see them like robots. They are extremely superficial.

Hurr durr peoplez boring, dumb n shit, me special and profound.

Did it occur to you it's you who fits your description perfectly?

The point of socializing is relaxing, emotional bonding and exchanging experiences. Not over-discussing boring, obscure topics or debunking fallacies of youtube politicians.

Just lol.

I thought you was going to leave after your mental breakdown? I don't get it. It's just sad. Not in an insulting way. But I actually feel kinda sorry. Like actual empathy. It's sad that there might be no help for you.

I guess I have to become more ignorant on this topic. I think you're very unpleasant to be around in real life. You're just lying to yourself everytike you come up with 3-4 examples where people reacted positively to you. And it's no insult. I'm also very unpleasant to be around.

Yes, that description might also fit perfectly on me. It might the exact impression people have when they see me. But why would I like people who remind me of these things?

It's like if you have cancer, do you automatically like cancer? I don't.

It's not like I think of myself as smarter or superior overall. At times I do but deep inside I know that this is just a thing my brain comes up with.

I want to socialize and be good to people. But I'm always disappointed and I wish I could avoid that.

Anyway, who cares about this? Just ignore this post.
 

aspiedotnet

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if you talked to one, you talked to them all


it's like they come from the same factory

in italy, they all have adidas stan smith shoes, ankle pants, leather jacket and undercut








 

GottThaGod

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RL_rehospitalized said:
nah, you just know I'm right

Right about what exactly? I agreed with you on the part that it might be the exact impression people have when they see me.
 
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