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Mughal said:
Rolex said:
actions, words, jumping at every chance to hang out with you etc
What if I'm seeing her for the first and only time? And we don't know each other? At the gym? And she smiles at me? And plays with her? And stares at me for approximately 40 mins while exercising? And then gives up? And then leaves? And I try my best to approach her but I can't, because I'm too scared?

Did she like me?
No offense asking that question makes you sound like a retarded 5 year old with no social experience at all. I call bullshit on that its either you approach or you didn't, you didn't try at all. Trying is talking to her and asking for her number that is trying not standing around for 40 minutes as she tries to get your attention. Its simple she wasn't hot enough for you to risk being rejected trust me if this women  did it to you would have probably made a move. All this talk about trying is bs your not trying because you either don't think shes atttractive enough or you think she has more value as you simple as that.
 

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stamaster21 said:
Mughal said:
What if I'm seeing her for the first and only time? And we don't know each other? At the gym? And she smiles at me? And plays with her? And stares at me for approximately 40 mins while exercising? And then gives up? And then leaves? And I try my best to approach her but I can't, because I'm too scared?

Did she like me?
No offense asking that question makes you sound like a retarded 5 year old with no social experience at all. I call bullshit on that its either you approach or you didn't, you didn't try at all. Trying is talking to her and asking for her number that is trying not standing around for 40 minutes as she tries to get your attention. Its simple she wasn't hot enough for you to risk being rejected trust me if this women  did it to you would have probably made a move. All this talk about trying is bs your not trying because you either don't think shes atttractive enough or you think she has more value as you simple as that.
She was out of my league, maybe that's why? It's called social anxiety by the way...I can't approach women because I'm insecure with myself, no matter how good-looking or ugly the girl is, and no matter how many IOIs I receive.