- Apr 9, 2016
NTs get very upset with me when I do or say things offline or on sites other than WP but when a typical NT does the same exact thing; people like em. I don't understand why I'm automatically judged & hated even when I act like a typical NT
Happens to me all the time. Seems there's a whole sub-level of communication we're not in tune with. Like if I make a sarcastic comment or joke, it often comes off mean-spirited. I can't figure out how NTs can pull it off and be charming.
NTs can't read your mind. It puts them off. When an NT reaches out to other NT's they get intuitive responses that let them know that they are communicating. We don't respond. From us they get a big blank.
NTs are taught that sociopaths and psychotics respond the way we do. It makes them afraid.
I find that it is worse in groups. NTs participate in 'group think'. It allows them to justify atrocity among other foolish actions. Groups of NTs have ALWAYS responded to me with violent opposition. Single NTs are more likely to be reasonable as they are able to think for themselves.
I'm not sure if your referring to me but I don't have a clue what I'm doing wrong. People complain that I don't talk much but when I try to engage in conversation people get upset. When I ask a question to try & understand something they think I'm pretending to be stupid, that I am stupid or that I'm being a smart-a$$. When I make a comment to someone to try & offer a friendly suggestion people assume that I'm stupid & don't know what I'm talking about or they think I'm being rude or critical when I'm not. Instead of telling me what I'm doing wrong; NTs accuse me of being rude, offensive, insensitive, stupid, retorted ect ect. I think I probably am retorted because I honestly do not know what I'm doing wrong sometimes that is so plainly obvious to everyone else.
The ironic thing is that when I was tested for Aspergers; AS was ruled out because the psychs thought I communicated to well verbally to have anything on the autism spectrum & that I was too smart to be autistic or anything because I had a high-school diploma yet most people tend to think I'm mentally retorted or some kinda trouble maker till they know me. I give off a really wrong vibe