- Jul 26, 2015
Lmao this dude is fucked instead of recommending him to go ER Or try a leg lengthing surgery, they tell him to just work on his voice. :lol:I just read this article:
Specifically, this line struck something in me:
"Despite speaking with confidence, if a man doesn’t speak with social acuity his confidence will only inspire resentment and mockery. If he speaks with confidence without possessing a masculine appearance, his congruency will be endlessly tested."
As an extremly short male, the more "alpha" I get the more shit I get from everyone, men and women, but mostly other men.
It's extremely disheartening for me. I get the vibe that everyone wants me to accept "my place," and like the article says I am endlessly shit tested for it.
Now I actuallly do alright, I have an LTR and trp is helping me really keep us both happy. I lift and box 5 days of the week,my career needs work but being 24 I think it's ok to still be finding my footing right now.
But I feel like no matter how hard I work I will always be missing that one crucial thing that's just so damn important, a foot of height.
I feel my height is a serious detriment to my potential, and do not see a way around this.
Just lol at the most uprated comment:
Work on your voice. Deeper, lower, slower. Also slow down your mannerisms, movements, etc. It'll help you cross that uncanny valley.