waifulaifu said:
Just a week ago I finished grade 12. It was a terrible experience realizing that I had graduated a virgin. When I first enrolled I was determined to lose my virginity but I failed. In fact I never even dated in highschool. Does this mean that I am doomed to remain an incel throughout my entire life? Will I be able to recover in college and if so how?
If you lose your virginity during freshman year, then you will by OK. When you get into your 20s you will realize that 18 year old girls are physically basically the same as 15-17 year old girls, so you're not missing out on a whole lot by missing out on high school sex. Society will view you as normal as well if you lose your virginity at 18. It's at age 20 that it really starts to get weird if you're still a virgin. The thing that worries me about you is that you've never been on a date. If the reason for that is that you have no female social connections, then you need to make friends during college ASAP.
Last year I graduated university a virgin, and I'm probably going to finish grad school a virgin. I've never kissed a girl, been on a date, or even had a female friend either. Now that is fucked up.
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none more red said:
waifulaifu said:
Currycel said:
You fucked up big time. If there is a time when looks don't matter it's high school. After high school girls start talking to older guys. I hope you're going to a college with dorms at the very least
The college I'm going to has dorms. Are there any particular things that you would advise that I do at college?
Get to work fast. The first couple weeks of each year feature more single girls than you can shake a stick at. That ends quickly.
This is legit. The first couple of weeks of freshman year is the most important exam of your college career. If you fuck it up, you will go through college without a social life.
