Having children is suicide. I do not envy people I know with kids, your freedom to travel is gone and in first world developed countries they are extremely expensive. It's only justifiable if you have the money to finance a baller life for them or have chad genetics otherwise you're just a self obsessed resource drain on the earth.
Also imagine if your kid comes out fucked. Friend of mine has a half blind, half deaf kid AND he's poor. What's the point, it's arrogance.