Do you know how many guys have fucked your wife. Before you or after you have been together? Has she told you her "number" and do you believe her?
Does her past make you angry or jealous or does it turn you on to think about her with others?
Do you personally know any of the boys or men who have penetrated her? Have you discussed their experiences with your wife with them?
Personally, I started dating my wife in 1963 when we were both pretty young. We started having sex--she was a virgin--and then her family moved across the country. We agreed we could "date" others--I thought that gave me a pass but she would be faithful. Wrong!
During high school apart she had sex with a couple of other guys--I knew two of them casually from when I visited in the summers.