Black Pill I was thinking about why my gf is soo attached to me and I figured it out

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@RealRob was right as fuck...
The 80/20 relationship power dynamic rule is the reason.

ever since we started calling each other babe and stuff (the point at which we became bf and gf I never actually asked her out or corny shit like that), I’ve been always putting in the least effort, giving as least and slow replies as possible, one worded, and even not putting in so much effort for time we spend together.

she’s the one initiating everything, doing things for me, asking me how my day was etc, I never ever ever sent a good morning text and I reply to her message at 4 pm after I’m done with school (lol).

she lives like 40 mins away so when we meet I do nothing but look at her like she’s an object and just kiss her and I’m all over her and never put too much effort into it because I wanted my oneitis. My oneitis is a whole another story but this theory seems legit because Instead of acting, I never actually was interested and invested in the relationship fully and she was scared of “loosing” me.

Lol Let's see how it will work for you with a girl you actually like.

Don't you get why dating coaches make these rules up? Because 99% of their clients are incels and normies which means they have to follow many rules in order to keep a girl "interested", such as pretending to be busy, acting cold, having options, to never text them and all that crap. This is why they also suggest to date multiple women at once and to not be exclusive because they know the average guy falls easily for a woman and therefore he should not text a woman on a daily, call her and everything that you actually would like to do but aren't allowed to because they know she loses interest if you did. Your oneitis is proof of that, she never cared what you did anyway (I am assuming you didn't get with her).

If a hot woman really likes to fuck you then you wouldn't need all these rules

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let me make this simple for you, since it's clear you're both mentally retarded and wildly autistic

if she cares less than you do, that means you're the more attractive one. it's not you caring less that makes her attractive to you, she cares more because she's already more attractive. no girl would give a fuck if a guy she wasn't into waited hours to respond.

not that fucking difficult, you aspie
If she cares less than you do you’re the more attractive one? Did you mean if she cares more?
 

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This is what you do, and this will spark the interest right back, every time:

Mirror her emotions + add some.

What do I mean?

She starts to lose interest? You start losing interest (giving her the perception of it) - even more than her.

She starts taking 2 hours to answer a fucking text? U take 3, or 4.

She less excited? U become even less excited.


Remember: A female will only leave u if she know u devastated by it.


She breaks up? "Yeah actually, I was thinking the same, Ive lost most of my interest for you too, maybe we should just be friends, im sure ull find a great guy for ya!" then walk away/hang up etc.
N some ppl think they are past these "games" period in their relationship, next thing is that she is bored of you
 

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keep raging u autistic retard

"hurr durr it's abt how much u care vs how much they do"

"no actually how much they care is abt how attracted they are in the first place"

"uh yeah obviously, u autist!"

lol @ u literally conceding the point and then calling me an autist for proving u wrong. shows what u know, roid-rage spastic
Obv she needs to have attraction towards you for these to work.
 
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"soo attached" learn 2 read
she's "soo attached" because she's sending him a lot of messages

that's p standard for any girl who's attracted to a guy

only reason it's notable is because he isn't responding nearly as much because, get this, he isn't nearly as attracted to her

it wasn't some autistic mind-games that made her the needy one. it's that she was the one who cared more right from the start.
 

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she's "soo attached" because she's sending him a lot of messages

that's p standard for any girl who's attracted to a guy

only reason it's notable is because he isn't responding nearly as much because, get this, he isn't nearly as attracted to her

it wasn't some autistic mind-games that made her the needy one. it's that she was the one who cared more right from the start.
Yes but if he acted into her, she would have been less attached imo.
 

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N some ppl think they are past these "games" period in their relationship, next thing is that she is bored of you

When u enter a relationship the real game starts. Its very easy to "not care" with just some random slut -> Way more difficult to be indifferent with a woman uve invested time and energy in.

These guys who think the game is over once they enter a relationship ... lol, it has just begun.
 

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When u enter a relationship the real game starts. Its very easy to "not care" with just some random slut -> Way more difficult to be indifferent with a woman uve invested time and energy in.

These guys who think the game is over once they enter a relationship ... lol, it has just begun.
I will indeed give this girl a rollercoaster of emotions every single day and make her feel soo unstable she would be having an insecurity mine in her mind.

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:coping:

You’re her abused dog servant that treats her like the princess she thinks she is.

:tatum:
??

she is the one who approached me, she’s the one who pushed the idea of a date, she’s the one texting me and inviting me to places.

tell me where I’m even remotely being her dog.

im not chad by any means but this is all new shit to me
 

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she is the one who approached me, she’s the one who pushed the idea of a date, she’s the one texting me and inviting me to places.

tell me where I’m even remotely being her dog.

im not chad by any means but this is all new shit to me
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you allowed it to happen.
 
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