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@RealRob was right as fuck...
The 80/20 relationship power dynamic rule is the reason.
ever since we started calling each other babe and stuff (the point at which we became bf and gf I never actually asked her out or corny shit like that), I’ve been always putting in the least effort, giving as least and slow replies as possible, one worded, and even not putting in so much effort for time we spend together.
she’s the one initiating everything, doing things for me, asking me how my day was etc, I never ever ever sent a good morning text and I reply to her message at 4 pm after I’m done with school (lol).
she lives like 40 mins away so when we meet I do nothing but look at her like she’s an object and just kiss her and I’m all over her and never put too much effort into it because I wanted my oneitis. My oneitis is a whole another story but this theory seems legit because Instead of acting, I never actually was interested and invested in the relationship fully and she was scared of “loosing” me.
The 80/20 relationship power dynamic rule is the reason.
ever since we started calling each other babe and stuff (the point at which we became bf and gf I never actually asked her out or corny shit like that), I’ve been always putting in the least effort, giving as least and slow replies as possible, one worded, and even not putting in so much effort for time we spend together.
she’s the one initiating everything, doing things for me, asking me how my day was etc, I never ever ever sent a good morning text and I reply to her message at 4 pm after I’m done with school (lol).
she lives like 40 mins away so when we meet I do nothing but look at her like she’s an object and just kiss her and I’m all over her and never put too much effort into it because I wanted my oneitis. My oneitis is a whole another story but this theory seems legit because Instead of acting, I never actually was interested and invested in the relationship fully and she was scared of “loosing” me.