Black Pill I was thinking about why my gf is soo attached to me and I figured it out

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@RealRob was right as fuck...
The 80/20 relationship power dynamic rule is the reason.

ever since we started calling each other babe and stuff (the point at which we became bf and gf I never actually asked her out or corny shit like that), I’ve been always putting in the least effort, giving as least and slow replies as possible, one worded, and even not putting in so much effort for time we spend together.

she’s the one initiating everything, doing things for me, asking me how my day was etc, I never ever ever sent a good morning text and I reply to her message at 4 pm after I’m done with school (lol).

she lives like 40 mins away so when we meet I do nothing but look at her like she’s an object and just kiss her and I’m all over her and never put too much effort into it because I wanted my oneitis. My oneitis is a whole another story but this theory seems legit because Instead of acting, I never actually was interested and invested in the relationship fully and she was scared of “loosing” me.
 

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It’s immoral but this is your baseline, never settle for feeing this type of way again about a girl. Use her for experience, social skills, sex, flirting etc. Then move onto the next, aim higher, keep growing like some hideous eldritch mass monster. Until you have consumed no less than half of India’s fertile population.
 

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It’s immoral but this is your baseline, never settle for feeing this type of way again about a girl. Use her for experience, social skills, sex, flirting etc. Then move onto the next, aim higher, keep growing like some hideous eldritch mass monster. Until you have consumed no less than half of India’s fertile population.
Indeed bucko I will take your advice and become a dark triad mogger slayer
 

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Btw guys I wasn’t treating her like shit on purpose I just did that because I wasn’t much interested in her and had hots for my oneitis.

my oneitisi crushed my heart so I was thinking what my gf sees in me that my oneitis doesn’t and realized this is it
 

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@RealRob was right as fuck...
The 80/20 relationship power dynamic rule is the reason.

ever since we started calling each other babe and stuff (the point at which we became bf and gf I never actually asked her out or corny shit like that), I’ve been always putting in the least effort, giving as least and slow replies as possible, one worded, and even not putting in so much effort for time we spend together.

she’s the one initiating everything, doing things for me, asking me how my day was etc, I never ever ever sent a good morning text and I reply to her message at 4 pm after I’m done with school (lol).

she lives like 40 mins away so when we meet I do nothing but look at her like she’s an object and just kiss her and I’m all over her and never put too much effort into it because I wanted my oneitis. My oneitis is a whole another story but this theory seems legit because Instead of acting, I never actually was interested and invested in the relationship fully and she was scared of “loosing” me.

Im always right, always.

Dont be romantic with her, be sexual. The attention she gets from u should be sexual, threat her like an object.

Your focus? Your mission in life, whatever that is. Hobbies, work, friends - not the girl.


Once in a fucking blue moon, u can say something really nice to her: This will make her appreciate it sooo much, after u have done this, expect her to become slightly colder (no good deed goes unpunished with women), you respond to this by withdrawing more, til she becomes super warm again.

Uphold this dynamic and u will live rent free in her head forever, til the day u guys die, u will be "the one" for her.


The day you fuck up this dynamic is the day she will start drying up the pussy getting wet for other guys.

U welcome.
 

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devour her pussy just like you devour her soul

pull the strings around her soul make her break down completly to the point she commits suicide and jumps off a bridge for you
 

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Im always right, always.

Dont be romantic with her, be sexual. The attention she gets from u should be sexual, threat her like an object.

Your focus? Your mission in life, whatever that is. Hobbies, work, friends - not the girl.


Once in a fucking blue moon, u can say something really nice to her: This will make her appreciate it sooo much, after u have done this, expect her to become slightly colder (no good deed goes unpunished with women), you respond to this by withdrawing more, til she becomes super warm again.

Uphold this dynamic and u will live rent free in her head forever, til the day u guys die, u will be "the one" for her.


The day you fuck up this dynamic is the day she will start drying up the pussy getting wet for other guys.

U welcome.
what is your suggestion if she starts to lose interest
 

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what is your suggestion if she starts to lose interest

This is what you do, and this will spark the interest right back, every time:

Mirror her emotions + add some.

What do I mean?

She starts to lose interest? You start losing interest (giving her the perception of it) - even more than her.

She starts taking 2 hours to answer a fucking text? U take 3, or 4.

She less excited? U become even less excited.


Remember: A female will only leave u if she know u devastated by it.


She breaks up? "Yeah actually, I was thinking the same, Ive lost most of my interest for you too, maybe we should just be friends, im sure ull find a great guy for ya!" then walk away/hang up etc.
 

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you're putting the cart before the horse here

she's putting in more effort because she likes you more

not the reverse lol

She likes him more, because he is putting in less effort. The moment she sense he is more invested in her and their relationship than she is: her interest will start fading.
 
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