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hypergamy on this dating site is UNREAL


Jul 7, 2015
[font=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]the ratios on okcupid are pretty fucked up. for every 1 girl, there is 25 new guys messaging her every day.[/font]

[font=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]okcupid has a way to determine/rank your popularity by how many messages you reply to. green bar under your profile indicates you reply often, yellow means you reply selectively, and red means you reply 'very selectively'. 90% no scratch that 98% of males on okcupid 'reply often' which means they respond to just about all the messages they receive. [/font]

[font=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]i set the location to '19-25 years old' and 'anywhere in the world' and heres what i find...[/font]


just as i expected nearly 90% of guys have no standards and reply to every message they get

[font=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]not surprisingly, for women is about the exact opposite. just about every one replies 'very selectively' with maybe 2 or 3% who reply often.[/font]

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[size=small][font=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]i understand women recieve more messages but thats the problem in the first place. why are average 5/10 women receiving validation from nearly single guy? why is this important? this shows how screwed the dynamics of dating are. i understand this is just online but this carries over into the real world when i want to pick up a girl at bar, at school, or wherever. there will always be a influx of guys ready to pounce on the first girl they see. this is the reason why most of you are incel.[/font]

im trying to update with pictures but it wont work.. wtf....