ItWontBeMe
Gigachad
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Before I'd get triggered hardcore whenever I'd run into someone objectively better-looking than me out in public, and I'd use that feeling of excruciating inferiority I experienced in that exact moment as a motivation to looksmax. I could replay that scenario over and over again in my head for the entire year; it could serve as my motivation to get out of the bed and start gymcelling instead of LDARing, etc.
Now whenever I see someone extremely GL irl, I recognize on an intellectual level that I should be feeling something, but because I've learned to completely remove myself from myself (coping mechanism), it does absolutely nothing to me. It's like watching something pass through the television screen from an altogether neutral/external perspective that is not my own.
>>Note: This is about comparing yourself to MEMBERS OF THE SAME SEX. THEY'RE YOUR PRIMARY COMPETITION.
Now whenever I see someone extremely GL irl, I recognize on an intellectual level that I should be feeling something, but because I've learned to completely remove myself from myself (coping mechanism), it does absolutely nothing to me. It's like watching something pass through the television screen from an altogether neutral/external perspective that is not my own.
>>Note: This is about comparing yourself to MEMBERS OF THE SAME SEX. THEY'RE YOUR PRIMARY COMPETITION.