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Help me out, boyos! (serious)
In my life i've had sexual activity with 7 girls.
I've only been able to get hard on 3 of them occasions. 2 of them 3 times led to sex.
On the other occasions, I was way too nervous to gert hard.
I think it's simply an anxiety issue. I have some anxiety in everyday life, anyway
When I'm with a new girl i'm nervous about not being able to get hard. Nervous about my cock. Nervous about everything.
My heart is pounding and my body tenses up and my mouth goes dry.
From what I hear, No sex pill in the world (viagra etc) is apparently able to 'override' extreme anxiety enough to get a very nervous guy hard. (can anyone confirm this??)
On the occasions where I WAS able to get hard, I think it was because I kind of knew the person and foreplay lasted a long time and was in a very relaxed atmosphere.
But the thing is, I want to learn how to be comfortable enough to be able to get hard with a new girl in seconds. Or even a prostitute! I don't want to always have to be in a relationship with an understanding girl before i'm able to fuck her!
I'm wondering if something like betablockers could help? I hear that they slow the heart down and remove the symptoms of anxiety, so maybe i'd be able to 'relax' enough with them to get hard?!
serious help only PLEASE!!!
In my life i've had sexual activity with 7 girls.
I've only been able to get hard on 3 of them occasions. 2 of them 3 times led to sex.
On the other occasions, I was way too nervous to gert hard.
I think it's simply an anxiety issue. I have some anxiety in everyday life, anyway
When I'm with a new girl i'm nervous about not being able to get hard. Nervous about my cock. Nervous about everything.
My heart is pounding and my body tenses up and my mouth goes dry.
From what I hear, No sex pill in the world (viagra etc) is apparently able to 'override' extreme anxiety enough to get a very nervous guy hard. (can anyone confirm this??)
On the occasions where I WAS able to get hard, I think it was because I kind of knew the person and foreplay lasted a long time and was in a very relaxed atmosphere.
But the thing is, I want to learn how to be comfortable enough to be able to get hard with a new girl in seconds. Or even a prostitute! I don't want to always have to be in a relationship with an understanding girl before i'm able to fuck her!
I'm wondering if something like betablockers could help? I hear that they slow the heart down and remove the symptoms of anxiety, so maybe i'd be able to 'relax' enough with them to get hard?!
serious help only PLEASE!!!