validation is the most important thing in life and the most important thing in death. as I died I would obsess over how many people will attend and my final thoughts will be how many more would have showed if I was born good looking
The ideal situation would be just my mom but it will be like 5-20 people I guess. My pseudo-relatives. People I don't have contact with but will feel pressured to show up at my funeral to pay pseudo-respect.