Your height is a absolutely awesome and you should embrace every bit of it! It wish I were 4'11" myself but I'm a little taller than that. I was a late bloomer so I was the shortest kid in my class back in school. I want to tell you this much. You are truly unique and your height shortness is a gift and you have to use it to boost your esteem, not lower it! Confidence from a short guy is so eye-opening it goes all the way from being overlooked to being everyone on earth's favorite guy! It's all about your resume and confidence and knowing and believing powerfully in what you do. As for the girl, you have an awesome choice. You can embrace a short girl confidently and share a small space that no other 2 people can fit into and make the world jealous. Alternatively, you can awwww the life out of a tall long legged girl and lead her to adore you in every way imaginable. 1 in every 20 at least is wired to like the short cute guys and they WANT that. The other 19 out of 20 nobody wants anyhow and their height restrictions aren't appealing to guys tall nor short. Embrace shortness with me! It's a gift if you use it to your advantage.