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FatalFlaw

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I didn't feel comfortable socializing with people from my previous social circles but I am not particularly happy with the current roster of friends either. Perceived loneliness (subjective feelings of being lonely despite having been around people) is what I suffer from the most.

I believe the key issue is the lack of motivation to socialize or meet new people in my case. I don't like most of the people and I prefer spending time with myself but I suffer this way because people are made to socialize, it's a must, a basic need that needs to be fulfilled in order for a human to function properly. If you force yourself to socialize while lacking a motivation to do it, it can never work, no matter how great all the relationships appear to be on the surface.
I have this problem too. Craving social interaction as a lifelong loner yet inevitably feeling alienated whenever I am welcomed to whatever social group I end up in, and learning that I would prefer to be alone anyway. The isolation cycles in intensity and seems impossible to escape.

Good thread. A lot of these articles describe aspects of my life spot on sadly.
 

just_a_life

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I have this problem too. Craving social interaction as a lifelong loner yet inevitably feeling alienated whenever I am welcomed to whatever social group I end up in, and learning that I would prefer to be alone anyway. The isolation cycles in intensity and seems impossible to escape.

Good thread. A lot of these articles describe aspects of my life spot on sadly.
yep exactly how i am too

the cycle expalanation is perfect

i have now been in the loner part of the cycle for like 2 years and it's harder than ever to imagine having any sort of social circle again

my old friends are married with kids, i dont want to see any of my other social circle bc they sided with my ex gf after our break up

ultimately i may reconnect with 2-3 close friends MAX and hang out with them sporadically one on one, like every 3 months just to catch up as they are all busy with their own lives

it's also interesting how girls take that sort of thing for granted/see it differently - i mean many of them hate each other deep down but they all usually have closer social circles even aa they get older.

i have been with a few girls that couldn't fathom the fact i didn't have a group of like 10 friends i hung out with each weekend, fucking brutal.
 

RealRetard

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I have been saying this for years, most incels are friendless loners and they cope by saying shit like “chad has no social circle” etc

having no friends and being incel is not a coincidence.
 

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i always knew iq was a massive cope

my decent grades in school are WORTHLESS

i'm average, a little above?

WHO CARES ITS OVER
 

Bobbu flay

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normie social interaction has to flow in context

you can't just bring up random topics whenever you want
U can just depends on how you do it.

if you do it like a autist then it won’t work.

but most people here at least don’t have high enough social skills to do something like that without being considered wierd
 

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You have to get good at crafting a high value image of yourself in people’s heads about your identity and status and who you are and the rest will follow.

if you don’t get good at that you will never be able to fit in socially.

Most people here have no idea or way to do this or somehow never learned which is why they constantly seem on the bottom socially to people.

your reputation and image is your life socially never forget this.
 

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some of this is just too fucking brutal
That paranoia thing really hits close with me. I've become so fucking paranoid about shit. Doesn't help that I live in a place where I actually have a reason to be worried as well.
 

just_a_life

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You have to get good at crafting a high value image of yourself in people’s heads about your identity and status and who you are and the rest will follow.

if you don’t get good at that you will never be able to fit in socially.

Most people here have no idea or way to do this or somehow never learned which is why they constantly seem on the bottom socially to people.

your reputation and image is your life socially never forget this.
make a thread on this and tag me bro....

my reputation socially is very low

the problem is being around people doesnt really interest me, i get really bored around people and im a bad actor so people can tell

NTs get really irritated if they think you're bored around them or don't talk that much, it makes them feel very insecure which they hate
 

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make a thread on this and tag me bro....

my reputation socially is very low

the problem is being around people doesnt really interest me, i get really bored around people and im a bad actor so people can tell

NTs get really irritated if they think you're bored around them or don't talk that much, it makes them feel very insecure which they hate
damn, even 6'4 aussie gigachads r struggling out there, like, wtf man... life is beyond dogshit for males in 2020
 

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damn, even 6'4 aussie gigachads r struggling out there, like, wtf man... life is beyond dogshit for males in 2020
looks were never really my problem and also guessing they're not yours and 99% of this forum, this is all bc of fucked up brain chemistry and neurotransmitters
 

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looks were never really my problem and also guessing they're not yours and 99% of this forum, this is all bc of fucked up brain chemistry and neurotransmitters
being hyper emphatic did indeed fuck up my life. the moment i started being narcy & egoistic, life started to improve... this clown world tbh
 
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