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7 simple ways to instantly boost your attractiveness
It is in our blood, in our genes that we want people to like us instantly. We all want to be considered a likable, pleasant and attractive person. We’ve always been taught to ‘be more confident’, ‘be kind’, be positive and so on. It’s true that being confident, charming, and funny can give you extra brownie points and seem more desirable. But they are also qualities that take time to build and master. And if not done right, it could backfire on you. Unnatural or faked confidence can make you seem like a douchebag, being too kind can make you look like a pushover, awkwardly charming may turn into creepiness and so on. Of course, practise makes perfect! But there are also some easier baby steps to take to help you lift your game and help you become instantly more pleasant and likeable while you work on the bigger milestones.
Here are 7 quick and easy fixes that you can try right now to boost your game:
This first one is a little bit cheesy but please bear with me! We all have 5 senses – sight, hearing, taste, smell and touch. You might have heard the saying that first impression lasts for a lifetime! So your smile (sight) is the key to breaking the ice on a first encounter. It’ll make you seem open, friendly and easy to approach.
2. Nice clean clothes
You don’t have to be fashionable, sexy or even stylish. These are further down the pipeline. Just start with nice and clean clothes with no greasy or oily stain. If you’re wearing something white make sure, it is super white. A white polo shirt (or white dress) with a yellow undertone can give the wrong impression (along the lines of unhygienic or dirty). If you’re wearing a shirt make sure it’s crisply ironed.
Not even talking about armpit hair, leg hairs and so on. Just talking about the basics – brush your teeth, shower and maybe even use a bit of mouthwash to make sure you look and smell good – appealing to their sense and sight. Typically a shower before the party, date or meeting will not only clean you up physically but can also boost your self-confidence, clean away any negativity and doubt and fill yourself up with refreshing positivity. Turn it into a ritual.
4. Smelling good
Next up is to appeal to their sense of smell by smelling good. Do NOT drown yourself in perfume or deodorant. It could be as simple as the smell of fresh linen (usually means nice clean clothes) or the smell of fresh out of the shower. You don’t want to be remembered as the person with BO or the one that went crazy with the perfume for that matter.
5. Drinking lots of water to improve your complexion
Drinking lots of warm water can not only improve your complexion, but also help improve your pooping and minimize bad breath too (got to smell good remember?). What’s the best way to drink more water? Try drinking at least 1 glass (300mL) of warm water as soon as you wake up in the morning. Add a slice of lemon or two for added Vitamin C which is also beneficial for your skin!
6. Sleep early
Sleep late will not only make you grumpy, but it’ll also give you dark circles under your eyes and lower your positive energy. The last thing you want is to look sleepy and uninterested during conversations – it makes you look bored. A dull, unenthusiastic person is not exactly the most fun to be around with.
7. Improve your posture
Finally, stand up straight!! Push your chest out, pull your shoulders back but with the chin down. If you’re wondering what the ‘correct’ posture is – try standing against a wall with your shoulders touching the wall – that’s how your back should be while walking or sitting. A slouching posture or hunched back gives the impression of insecurity and lack of confidence – people are attracted to other confident and inspiring people.