how are there still so many guys out there who dont understand physical attraction is based on looks and ALWAYS has been since caveman days and always will be.. the words that come out of your mouth AKA your personality and behavior is a reflection of your reality/mindset but it does not create physical attraction. physical attraction(butterflies, goosbumps, heart rate increase) is merely subconscious impulses based on genetic wiring. As much as people want to believe personality(projection of ego) comes first in attraction, nothing could be further from the truth. We are still an evolving species and as much as we want to override our genetic wiring and place value on personality over looks, its not possible because physical attraction doesnt work that way. that system of logic is nothing more then a puritanical perversion of biology, the same fantasy-based system of logic that oppressed natural science and allowed religion to proliferate. We dont get to choose who they are physically attracted to, we never have been able too, and theres a good chance we never will. Its not a very comforting conviction for most people but its reality and the post below is just a small illustration of that reality. The truth is there is no 'magic words' that can be said that will MAKE you more physically attractive.