08-18-2015, 02:04 PM
Yes I have noticed that a lot of posters here think They get IOI's all the time, yet never get laid. I am not going to argue about the importance of looks in getting laid, yes it is very important, but i still think there is a certain mentallity that you need to have that most posters here don't have. They have such a big and fragile ego that most people here do not even try to get with woman. Deep down they know if they go out and try to hit up a few woman there is at least one harsh rejection just lurking right around the corner. No matter how good looking you are if you go out and try to slay you will encounter lots of bullshit and rejections. Most posters here would be on suicide watch if they got ignored by one woman. From experience I can tell you IOI's don't mean shit and 90% of the time you are just being delusion. Trust me I was like this once until I went out and tried to get woman via cold approach and even thru social circle.
08-18-2015, 02:20 PM
shy narcissist is the correct term.
they are here because they have hard feeling of jealousy and inferiority and they need someplace to take it out.
08-18-2015, 02:49 PM
Im ugly :(
08-18-2015, 02:55 PM
Im far from a narcissist on here or irl
The sub-8 law refers to systematic legal oppression of non-attractive men (more specifically, men rated below 8 in attractiveness).
this site is called lookism
you call narcisist people who think looks is very important
and dont got enough look
so they become obsess with their lack of looks
therefore the narcissist vibe
just perfectionnism maybe
08-18-2015, 04:24 PM
It is accepting the reality that the world hates you. People are just too hypocrite to tell it on your face and rather be condescending, but behind your back they talk about how much of a genetic shit you are.
08-18-2015, 05:59 PM
(08-18-2015, 03:53 PM)Victory Wrote: It's hard to not become obsessed with your looks after realizing the importance in every aspect of life of them.
People tell you to 'forget about it' even though it literally affects all of your interactions / success with women / job opportunities / general level of confidence and self-esteem / happiness.
It's like saying ignore water, it's not important.
08-18-2015, 06:04 PM
"SHY narcissist is preoccupied with avoiding the spotlight, particularly if it might end up in praise, because they fear judgement and jealousy. Narcissists are generally very envious and jealous of other peoples successes. As such, they believe others will be jealous and envious of them. This freaks out a shy narcissist because a shy narcissist wants to be loved by everyone."
"The lack of love has instilled a sense of worthlessness and insecurity. As a defense to this low self esteem they develop delusions of grandiosity. Shy narcissist use this defense but they deal with the delusions a bit differently"
describe most of the guys here...
08-18-2015, 06:30 PM
I'm not particularly jealous of people, like I know people with super hot girlfriends and it's not like I wouldn't want that, but it's not like I have any resentment toward them or dislike them for it or anything like that.
Quote:Narcissists are generally very envious and jealous of other peoples successes. As such, they believe others will be jealous and envious of them.
Sounds like a deficit in theory of mind. I don't think people are really jealous or envious of me though, I don't know why the fuck they would be lol. I typically do like for everyone to like me though, but I don't really give a fuck if they don't like me either so it's not really that important to me.
(08-18-2015, 06:30 PM)mrz Wrote: I'm not particularly jealous of people, like I know people with super hot girlfriends and it's not like I wouldn't want that, but it's not like I have any resentment toward them or dislike them for it or anything like that.
i was like you, while i was bluepilled.
elliots manifesto convinced me to be legit jealous. i am better than the people who get the girlfriends. i am smarter, faster, better shooting from downtown just more magnificent overall. i deserve it more. and im fucking mad as hell [currently] and will keep attacking all the couples i see. i will try to punish them for making me legit feel mad as hell sometimes.
08-19-2015, 12:57 AM
(08-18-2015, 11:47 PM)mvp Wrote:(08-18-2015, 06:30 PM)mrz Wrote: I'm not particularly jealous of people, like I know people with super hot girlfriends and it's not like I wouldn't want that, but it's not like I have any resentment toward them or dislike them for it or anything like that.
In situations like that I typically get depressed rather than jealous or angry. I don't really think I'm better than most of the guys I know with hot girlfriends though. But like if I ask to kiss a girl and she doesn't want to kiss me, and then someone else just kisses her and she doesn't even care, or if I try to work up confidence to ask a girl if I can fuck her and someone else just comes and starts fucking her before I do, it makes me depressed because I do the right thing and get rejected or if not I get not even a chance to get rejected, and others who are much more aggressive get to make out with girls or fuck them, that's really the truest redpill there is, LMS might be true, but being sexually aggressive is a strong requirement in my experience, but it's the opposite of what people say you should be like, but it's what works it seems to me.
08-19-2015, 04:00 AM
I have Schizoid personality disorder, which is pretty much the opposite of narcissism